I was talking to a friend today, and I think he might have voted for Trump.
He wouldn’t come out and say it, and I wouldn’t as
So what gives? Well, we needed a change, and that was the only choice. Kamala’s refusal to say what she would do differently from Biden was foolish, in my estimation, and it apparently cost her more than I realized. The last few years have been pretty awful, financially, and she really didn’t do a very good job articulating what she would do differently. Of course, Trump didn’t do a very good job articulating anything, but he did have the undeniable advantage of being “the other guy.” And, to be fair, pretty much everyone in charge got kicked out this year: Tommy Vietor (of the Pod Save America guys) said that this is the first year where the leadership of every developed nation in the world was rejected at the same time, regardless of whether they were left, right, or center. I didn’t fact check him, but certainly the ones I know about (ours, the UK’s, France’s, India’s) conform with that assessment. This is fairly typical really: when you’re getting hit in the pocketbook, throw the bums out. I certainly sympathize with that perspective.
But, here’s my issue: I sort of hoped that we, as a country, wouldn’t say “well, we need a change, so let’s elect the rapist.” Isn’t that going too far? As I tried to articulate to my friend, if the choice were between whoever’s currently in charge and, say, Charlie Manson, or Jeffrey Dahmer, we wouldn’t elect the serial killer ... right? Trump is definitely not Charles Manson, obviously, but my point is this: there is a line. I have to continue to believe that. I was just hoping that the racist, Hitler-loving, convicted felon rapist wouldn’t be on the near side of that line.
In our conversation, there were many defenses of Trump floated about. Here they are, as best as I can articulate them, and here are my counterpoints:
- All this calling him fascist is over the top rhetoric. Except ... is it really? The guy quoted Hitle
r— multiple times, eve n— and said that he wished his generals were more like Hitler’s. Sounds kinda fascist to me. Pointing out that he sure does know a lot about Hitler for someone who’s supposedly not a fascist doesn’t seem over the top to me. (My friend seemed a bit exasperated about the Hitler quote thing. “What did he actually say that quoted Hitler?” he asked, clearly expecting that it was a rhetorical question. Too easy: immigrants are poisoning the blood of our country, and we have to fight the enemy within. The subject was quickly changed.)
- He was President before, and he didn’t do any of that really terrible stuff you’re worried about. True. Because, last time, a combination of incompetence and being restrained by sane people meant that he had difficulty accomplishing any of the really crazy stuff. But are we forgetting that he actually tried to do those things? If the arsonist can’t burn your house down because he can’t figure out to work the flamethrower, that’s good, but you still don’t let him keep the thing, right?
- He doesn’t really mean all that crazy shit he says. For instance, last time he said he would build a wall and make Mexico pay for it. Obviously we all knew that he was never going to do that. Okay, probably a fair assessment, but why do want to pick someone who goes around saying they’ll do things that they really won’t do? If the only way you can justify choosing a person is by ignoring everything they say, you might be working too hard at it.
- He’s not actually running on the Project 2025 plan, so that part doesn’t matter. Wait, so we’re not supposed to believe him when he says he wants to eliminate the EPA, or to erase transgender people, but we are supposed to believe him when he says that the plan, written by people who used to work for him and commissioned by an organzation that he’s openly commended in the past, has nothing to do with him? Sounds a bit inconsistent. (A few hours after posting this, I watched Adam Conover’s interview with Jamelle Bouie, who put it like this: ”... he’s a blank slate to people. The fact that he i
s— like, he doesn’t make any sense a lot of the times, he’s constantly bullshitting, he’s constantly lying, he’s just saying things off the cuf f— I think that what that says to people is that you can’t take anything he says seriously. And that allows people to then pick and choose what they want to believe about him.” This was such an accurate description of my conversation that it gave me the shivers.)
- Okay, but if actually tried to do any of those crazy things you just mentioned, people would stop him. There are checks and balances. What fucking people? Elon Musk? RFK Jr? Herschel Walker? Steve Bannon? LAURA FUCKING LOOMER? Last time, there were sane people around him (at least a few). This time, every single one of those absolute lunatics that I just listed are specifically named by Trump’s transition team. And, checks and balances? really? Will it be the Republican Senate that will keep him in line? or the Republican House? Or perhaps it will be the overtly Republican Supreme Court, who has already told him that he can do whatever he likes and never be held criminally liable. Sure, that’s a recipe for success.
- We have too many government agencies as it is. Getting rid of some of them would actually be a good thing. That’s one of those things that sounds good in the abstract, but sort of falls apart when you start looking into it. If we get rid of the EPA, no one stops greedy corporations from just dumping their pollution everywhere. If we eliminate the Department of Education, no one stops all the public school funding from being diverted to private charters that only serve the wealthy. If we cut the Low Income Home Energy Assistance Program, many elderly or low-income people could literally freeze to death in the winters. If we nuke the Strategic Climate Fund (and the rest of the Global Climate Change Initiative), then the crisis caused by climate change gets significantly worse, which may end up killing a lot more. All those are things Trump’s team has actually proposed eliminating, by the way.
- If he screws up too badly, then he’ll lose all his support and we’ll vote him out (or, techincally speaking, vote out the Republicans) in 4 years. Well, I sincerely hope that we’ll at least partially vote out the Republicans in two years. But how much damage can be done in that amount of time? “It’s not like we’re going to have two years of people just going ‘woohoo!’ and dumping pollution everywhere for two years.” Um ... are you sure? I honestly can’t see any reason why we wouldn’t. Not to mention the two years of rounding up “illegal” immigrants, the two years of cruel laws surrounding abortions and transgender rights, the two years of brutal prices caused by tariffs and reversing the decision to disallow junk fees and allowing unchecked corporate mergers. Yeah, maybe it won’t be as bad as all that ... but why are we risking it?
Here’s a simple example. Our biggest household expense, outside the mortgage payment, is our grocery bill. It’s more than double what it was four years ago, and I’m actually feeding two fewer mouths at this point. But it still keeps going up. And I’m not even counting what we spend on vitamins or toothpaste or paper towels or laundry soap. Just food. And I’m not including eating out eithe
So I’m fully expecting my bills to go up, not down, just on that single issue. And the rest of his economic policies are just as bad: Tariffs will make prices go up. Deporting immigrants will reduce the workforce and force companies to pay more for labor, which will make prices go up. And all those relaxed regulations and hanging unions out to dry will certainly make the billionaires much richer, but if you think the corporations are going to pass their savings onto you, the consumer, you haven’t learned anything from the last 50 years of financial evidence. If you increase corporate profits, they spend it on stock buybacks and CEO bonuses and you get nothing in return.
If you voted for Trump, perhaps you’re feeling pretty good right now. I encourage to hold on to that feeling for as long as possible. I suspect that, in a year or two, you won’t be feeling all that good about it. And, look: I hope I’m wrong about that. I would be very pleased for you to be able to tell me “I told you so.” But past history doesn’t lead me to believe there’s much chance of that. And, even above and beyond the financial impact, what about the human cost? If, as I suspect, Trump’s plan to deport about twce as many people as there are illegal immigrants results in more horrific images of children in cages, will that be okay? I mean, they’ll likely be brown children, so maybe it won’t matter to you. But I hope you don’t actually think that way. If I’m right that Trump tries to implement a significant chunk of Project 2025 and that results in minorities and, especially, LGBTQ people, being put at risk of prejudice, violence, and loss of healthcare, will that be okay? I mean, maybe your church told you all those people are going to hell anyway (despite the fact that Jesus not only told you to love your neighbor, but to even love your enemies), so maybe that won’t matter to you either. But I hope you don’t really believe that in your inner heart. If Trump attempts to use the Comstock Act to make abortion care so difficult that it may as well be a federal ban, will that be okay? If Clarence Thomas makes good on his threat to overturn the right to same sex marriage, will that be okay? Maybe you think that none of that affects you. But I’ve got children who could be impacted by nearly all of those things, so I don’t have that luxury.
Again, I want to be wrong about this. But I can’t help but wonder why you thought voting for a racist was okay if you’re not racist. Why you thought voting for a big fan of Hitler was okay if you don’t believe in fascism. Why you thought voting for the man who’s bragged about single-handedly getting rid of Roe v Wade was okay if you believe in equal rights for women. I understand the pocketbook argument, I really do. And maybe your finances will be better off in a year or so, though I’ve outlined the reasons why I don’t actually believe they will be. But, either way, you still voted for the racist, Hitler-loving, convicted felon rapist, and that makes me wonder if it’ll be worth it in the end.